“Kids Table.” Remember being relegated to that table at some family event? There was room at the ‘big’ table just for adults — who wanted to have adult conversation, after all. So they sent the kids to the little table in the kitchen.

Actually, I didn’t mind being there. I still like kid food and often find that the children are more open and funnier. And the adults, in contrast, sometimes seem stiff and dull.

But eventually you’re graduated to the adult table and you have to grow up some. No more food fights or yelling. You can’t dominate the conversation or hog the food. You’re expected to bring out some of the serving dishes and to clear the dishes afterward. It’s not all about ME.

But, have you noticed that some so-called adults don’t act that way? They still treat mealtime as if it’s all about them. Do people do that in church? Sadly, yes.

And it’s because of that we have a quote from what some scholars consider the oldest hymn in the church, Philippians 2:4-11. Growing up — in maturity and in Christ — entails placing a greater emphasis on the needs of others than on our own wants. If Christ laid aside his vaulted position to serve others, we are called to do the same.

In an acted-out parable [John 13:2-5], Jesus served his disciples in a humbler way than the disciples were willing to do: to wash the feet of one another as would a slave. The moment was powerful, awkward, and memorable.

When you enter the church building, do you do so looking for a way to serve others (kids, the elderly, strangers) or are you expecting to BE served (with the temperature of the room, the songs sung, the messages & teachings relevant and entertaining)?

How much of the character of Christ has ‘rubbed off’ on you?

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