11.15.26: THIS IS MY STORY, THIS IS MY SONG: “Still Becoming”

Rev. Dr. Dedric Cowser • November 9, 2026

Philippians 3:12-14

“Center of My Joy”

We gather for one service at 10 am in The New Room this week.


Opening Reflection

Our culture often prizes arrival: the finished project, the polished image, the life that looks complete. Many of us quietly carry the pressure to have it all together, including in our faith. But that pressure can make us defensive about our shortcomings or discouraged that we haven't grown faster. The burden to have the perfect life further isolates us from one another and makes us feel like we’re the only ones who are working to hold it all together. 


Paul doesn’t pretend to have a perfect life or to have achieved the prize. He describes himself as still reaching, still pursuing, still pressing on, precisely because Christ has already taken hold of him. Growth in faith cannot be driven by anxiety but must be grounded in grace. Letting go of what lies behind, both our failures and our past achievements, frees us to receive what God is doing now.

Scripture Focus

Philippians 3:12–14


Discussion Questions

  1. Why do you think Paul is so candid about not having reached the goal?
  2. What does it mean that Christ has "taken hold" of us before we ever reach for him?
  3. What kinds of things, whether regrets, wounds, or past successes, can keep us from moving forward?
  4. How is pressing on in faith different from striving to earn God's approval?
  5. What is the "goal" Paul is pursuing, and how might you describe that goal in your own life?
  6. How can a church community make room for people who are still growing, including ourselves? What struggles can come from welcoming all people?
  7. Where do you sense God inviting you to take the next step of growth right now?


Formation Invitation

Each evening this week, take a few minutes to ask two questions: Where did I notice God at work in me today? What do I need to release to God tonight? Write a short phrase in response to each. At the end of the week, look back over what you wrote and notice any patterns.


Writing Your Faith Story, Part 2: Naming the Turning Points

Return to the timeline you began last week. Circle two or three moments that changed the direction of your faith, times when you grew, struggled, doubted, let go of something, or took a new step. For each, write a short paragraph answering:


  • What was happening in my life?
  • How did I experience God, or wrestle with God, in that season?
  • How was I different afterward?


Remember Paul’s honesty in Philippians: your story doesn’t need a tidy ending. It’s okay for it to include questions and unfinished chapters. You are still becoming.


For Further Reflection

Read Philippians 1:3–11 and 2 Corinthians 3:17–18. Notice how Paul trusts God to complete the good work already begun in us.


Closing Prayer

Patient God, thank you for taking hold of us before we ever reached for you. Free us from the weight of what lies behind, from guilt that binds us and pride that stalls us. Give us grace to keep growing, humility to admit we are unfinished, and joy in pressing on toward your call in Christ Jesus. Amen.


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